Some people think it’s really easy to find a gay hookup for a fun time, and it definitely can be if you follow our tips for making sure everyone is on the same page and having a great time in any casual gay sex situation. A good one night stand is ironically (or not) something to hold onto! Everyone loves a good hookup.
Make sure that your hookup doesn’t think that you’re looking for anything other than a hookup. Be up front about what you want and you will more than likely get it! If your expectations are different, it might not be the best casual partner for you.
Have HOT Sex
The whole point of a hookup is to have great sex. Communicate with your lover about what you want in the sac, and be receptive to what they want you to do to them too.
Be Super Friendly
Even though you’re not dating, it’s appropriate to get to know your hookup a little. Being friends can enhance a sexual experience because you’ll feel a bit more bonded to your guy than just a stranger, unless you’re into stranger fucking.
Relax and Hang Loose
“Hooking up is supposed to be fun,” laughs Gary, a popular guy and hookup fan who finds guys on Discreet Gay Dating. “Think of your hookup as an escape from everyday life, and let your sexual energy fly!” Go with the flow. That’s part of the fun and sexy aspect of casual sex.
Be Open about Sexual Health
Check base about sexual health concerns early. Make sure you’re both on the same page about condom usage and what activities you’re down for. If engaging in BDSM or other fetish activities that might allow for a little pain and pleasure, make sure you have a safe word and a plan in place.