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All male three-ways are something of a tradition in the gay community. Whether you’re hooking up with a couple, are a member of a couple, or are a part of an impromptu “ménage à trois” thrown together at a bar or club, it’s one of the easiest hookups to accomplish. Unlike in the straight world, there’s no particular uneasiness with the gender of one of the participants, and many couples find that the added attraction of getting double-teamed allows them to land men who wouldn’t likely be interested in them one-on-one.

Given that the gay community is unencumbered by the sexual morays of the straight world, if you’re a member of a couple looking to play, picking up singles is almost too easy. With no notion of the virtue of chastity in effect for men, the only guys who will say no are those who find you repulsive and those who have some notion that they are ONLY looking for a serious relationship and are unwilling to have some fun along the way.

Sometimes if a couple consists of two primarily bottoms or tops, they’ll be looking for a guy that brings their missing position to the mix, two bottoms looking for a total top, or two tops looking to skewer a willing bottom. If you are the single guy hooking up with the couple, beware the bait boy; with some couples, there’s one hot one and one very much less so. Make sure you’ve seen pictures of both, so you know what you’re getting into; it sucks when you think you’re heading into a great tryst only to discover that one is a troll. Then you’re faced with a decision at a point when you’re not thinking with your primary brain, and we all know how those decisions turn out.

The joys of gay threesomes are many, and the possibilities are seemingly limitless. Assuming some versatility, stamina and staying power, there’s just more combinations possible than with a one-on-one encounter. Perhaps your favorite position is getting sandwiched, that is fucking while getting fucked; but in all honesty, it’s almost too good, and it’s tough to last in that position. Advanced bottoms can get double penetrated or DP’d, and of course go on the rotisserie.

Just be sure that you try to stay in tune with the overall vibe of the encounter, particularly if you’re with an established couple. You want to make sure you’re not ignoring one of them, even if you like one more than the other; you signed up for a threesome, and it’s bad form to leave one out. Of course the usual admonitions apply: use common sense in the situations you get into and the people you bed, and always play safe!

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