Choosing a Group
It’s not that hard to find your way into some group action. Just go online and someone is bound to be hosting some sort of group party. Depending on the night, you may even be able to snag a few horny guys who are interested in hooking up for an impromptu gangbang.
But unless you’re fine with and/or looking for anonymous sex, the best group play happens when you take the time and have the patience to choose your playmates carefully.
It’s really no different than finding a partner, or long-term fuckbuddy. At the level of the individual, we look for someone we’re not only attracted to physically, but with whom we have a connection, share things in common, conversation comes easily, and of course, the sex is awesome. When showing up for an impromptu gangbang, none of these things are guaranteed.
My first experience of group sex was memorable only in that I hadn’t done it before. After that, I could only imagine how much better it could be if I were able to pick and choose who’s in the game. I didn’t like grouping with guys I didn’t know, or guys I otherwise wouldn’t have anything to do with.
So I began to take an active role in my own fantasies. I started small by inviting two of my fave buddies—guys I knew would hit it off—to meet for a threesome. Success! Soon enough a fourth is added, another go-to sure-thing buddy. Then one of your trustworthy buddies has a buddy he thinks would be perfect for our little group, and one more is added. And so on.
It’s time-consuming, and you have to be in it for the long haul, but this approach is perfect for guys who are either A) wary of anonymous group sex (and rightfully so) or B) looking for a way to get into group sex but are shy. Logic dictates the law of averages will not be in favour of this approach (you’ll have to weed out lotsa scum before you find the good stuff in the barrel), but that’s where patience comes in. The boys for you are out there, you just have to find them.
Be Safe!