It’s considered a truism that men give the best blowjobs, and rightfully so. Besides having more familiarity with the equipment, gay men really enjoy it, whereas many women look at it as a chore. Perfecting one’s blowjob technique takes years of practice and a lot of cocks have to pass those lips, something straight women usually don’t want to do, or because of society’s morays don’t take the opportunity to do.
As a presumed owner of a cock, you’re already familiar with the areas of heightened sensitivity, around the edges of the head and the underside, just below the tip. That’s where you want to concentrate your efforts. While it may be visually exciting to watch someone nibbling at the base or sucking your balls, it is unlikely to lead to completion. Stimulation around there is great, particularly sticking a finger or two up their ass, but to coax out a load, stimulating the head is key!
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As someone who has had quite a few blowjobs from females, besides not being careful enough with their teeth, my biggest complaint, qualitatively speaking, is that they are way too gentle and dainty when going down on you. You’re a man having sex with a man, soft and gentle is not the rule of the encounter. Men give way more aggressive blowjobs than women do, hell, 69-ing invariably turns into a sword-swallowing contest as the aggression and competitive sprit take hold. Speaking of 69, the best head is given “right side up,” not upside down as in a 69 position, to say nothing of the often-problematic angles when partner’s heights are discordant.
There are differing techniques dependent on the size of your partner as well. If you’re dealing with a small cock, you need to concentrate on providing stimulation with your lips and tongue. Suction and friction are the means to provide a satisfying experience. Go fully down on the shaft and press the full length of your tongue very firmly against the underside of the shaft. Rubbing your tongue forwards and backwards, making sure that you’re catching the underside of the head’s edge flair will provide very intense sensations.
In all situations, squeezing the base of your partner’s cock will make their erection harder, and will engorge the head of the penis, making it much more sensitive to your ministrations. A tight grip and a jerking motion can be a stimulation multiplier when you’re giving head. Jerking, creating strong suction while firmly circling the edge of the head with your tongue can be incredibly intense, so much so that uncircumcised men simply can’t take it, and you might cause them to immediately cum or to back off because it’s too intense for them to stand, similar to the heightened sensitivity men experience after they’ve achieved orgasm.
More advanced techniques such a deep throating, particularly when giving a blowjob to someone with a large cock, requires you to be able to suppress your gag reflex, which is something anyone can do with sufficient practice and motivation. I’ve found that I do much better if I’m being stimulated during the act of giving head, most often stroking my own cock to provide additional motivation to jam a huge cock down my throat. Making sure you have taken a breath, with practice, you can get the whole thing down your throat, and with all of the internal ridging in there it provides very intense sensations to the lucky recipient as you let it slide in and out of your mouth.
Another great technique once you’ve mastered suppressing your gag reflex, is going all the way down on it, with your nose buried in his pubes and then swallowing, combined with the longitudinal tongue technique discussed earlier. The peristaltic actions of your throat and your larynx moving up and down, and the firm tongue action will send waves of stimulation through your partner that few can take before cumming.
Men who are uncircumcised have loose skin that can sometimes prevent getting the full pleasure of your work-over. Often it will cover the erogenous portions that you are trying to stimulate, though the foreskin does provide a nice little compartment that you can get your tongue into. Pulling down the excess loose skin to unhood the head will expose all of his most excitable areas, and will make deep throating much easier for you, and more stimulating for him.
Communication is key, and everyone is an individual. Not only will you get better practicing with the same individual, you will learn what works best on each other. Just remember, no teeth!
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