For those of us who live in large cities, finding opportunities for gay sex is almost too easy. Whether you’re working out at the gym, riding mass transit, or just walking down the street, there are willing partners all around casually signalling their availability. Those who live in smaller communities won’t necessarily find this type of temptation, but it’s hardly desolate.
While historically gay bars were where men went to meet men. Most smaller communities didn’t have them, and if they did, particularly in conservative areas, they became notorious and avoided by closeted men, lest people find them out. Times have changed a great deal since then, and these days gay bars have become great places to meet gay alcoholics and nothing more. More than perhaps any other demographic, gay dating has moved online, which is good news for those who live in conservative small towns than anyone else.
In small towns it may seem like there’s no gays, but rest assured gay men are everywhere. While some migrate to the big cities which gives them disproportionately large gay communities, the numbers elsewhere are working in your favor. The average county in the United States has roughly 100,000 residents, figure half are women, so you have 50,000 men, eliminate another half for those who are underage and you have 25,000 adult men. Using a conservative estimate of 10% as men who are into men and you still have 2,500 men to choose from, just in your county. Now imagine if you all went to the same night club on the same night, surely you’d be able to find a man you liked, right?
Online dating is the equivalent of that dream nightclub, without having to be there at the precise moment that someone you’d want is. When you consider what it costs to go out, the hit or miss nature of a chance encounter at a club. and the risks associated with getting home after a night spent at a bar, online dating is the logical choice. You wonder how anyone managed to meet anyone previously, leaving so much to chance. With online dating you can select your guy from the comfort of your own home, often get a look at him naked (wink wink) while having a flirty conversation at your own pace AND simultaneously talk to other prospects! It doesn’t matter if you’re in a big city or a small town, there’s no reason to be alone tonight. It might not seem that way, but the numbers ARE on your side. Go online now to reap the benefits.
Where do you prefer to meet men, clubs or online?